Self-Esteem aur Self-Confidence — Aap Khud Ko Kis Nazar Se Dekhte Hain, Ye Maayne Rakhta Hai
Kabhi-kabhi sabse sakht tanqeed bahar se nahi, balki khud se milti hai.
Aap baar-baar apna muqabla doosron se karte hain, apni salahiyat par shak karte hain, apni ghaltiyon par zyada focus karte hain, naye challenges se bachne lagte hain, ya baar-baar mehsoos karte hain ke “Main kaafi achcha nahi hoon.”
Low self-esteem is baat ko affect kar sakta hai ke hum khud ko kaise dekhte hain, challenges ka saamna kaise karte hain aur doosron ke saath kaise relate karte hain.
Healthy self-esteem ka matlab khud ko doosron se behtar samajhna nahi hai. Iska matlab apne baare mein zyada balanced aur realistic nazariya banana hai—apni strengths ko pehchanna, apni limitations ko samajhna aur khud ke saath zyada meherbani se pesh aana.
Counselling ek safe, confidential aur non-judgmental space provide kar sakti hai jahan negative self-beliefs ko explore karne, emotional difficulties ko samajhne aur healthier coping approaches develop karne par kaam kiya ja sakta hai.
Khud ko value karne ke liye aapko kisi aur jaisa banne ki zaroorat nahi.
Carl Rogers Mental Health Counselling and Guidance Centre Mental Health Counselling & Guidance Hyderguda, Hyderabad Guidance for a better you.